WHILE WE’RE YOUNG
A captivating comedy about ambition, ethics, and fractured marriages.
Should You Watch It?
WHILE WE’RE YOUNG is a captivating comedy with a stellar cast and interesting characters. Ben Stiller brings humor to Josh, a documentary filmmaker who has spent a decade struggling to finish a project. His friendship with a younger filmmaker, Jamie, becomes a sharp examination of jealousy, ambition, success, and ethical compromise.
The film’s humor and performances keep it engaging. But the story also includes Shamanism, drugging, hallucination, vomiting, strong language, and marriages that begin to fall apart when spouses kiss other people and mistreat each other. Its final act becomes preachy and pushes several agendas without giving the story much closure.
Adults may find worthwhile questions about truth, success, family, and ethics. Children and young teens should stay away. WORTH THE TRIP — ADULTS ONLY is the practical answer.
The Story
NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISESJosh is a documentary filmmaker whose decade-long project has left him creatively stalled and unable to find funding. While teaching a filmmaking class, he meets Jamie and Darby, a young married couple who admire his work and invite him and his wife, Cornelia, into their hipster lifestyle.
Jamie asks Josh to help create a documentary about meeting his first Facebook friend in person. When Jamie’s film becomes more creative and popular than Josh’s, professional friendship gives way to jealousy. Then Josh begins to suspect that Jamie’s storytelling methods are less than ethical.
Is It Any Good?
Four stars means this is a highly entertaining film despite its serious flaws. The stellar cast and interesting characters keep it captivating throughout, and the comedy is often excellent. Jamie is especially engaging: lovable and confident, yet ultimately conniving in pursuit of what he wants.
The weakness comes in the last act. The film becomes preachy as it pushes several agendas, primarily involving ethical issues. The ending does not inspire much closure, leaving it difficult to know exactly what the film was ultimately about.
The Worldview
WHILE WE’RE YOUNG presents a mentality of following your dreams, whatever you have to do, while placing success above family and ethics. The film does examine and sometimes check unethical behavior through moral and ethical concerns, but it does not offer clear closure about those competing ideas.
Its religious elements are strongly false from a biblical perspective. Shamanism is practiced through drugging, hallucination, confession, and vomiting as a way of purging evil from within. The documentaries also discuss leftist political subjects, including communism and socialism.
The film’s central conflict concerns the cost of ambition. Josh’s jealousy grows as Jamie’s documentary surpasses his in creativity and popularity, while the married couples’ relationships deteriorate through infidelity and mistreatment. The story raises real questions about whether professional success is worth sacrificing family and integrity.
Scripture connects success with truth rather than deception: “Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out” (Proverbs 10:9).
The Content Guide
The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.
Content Summary
Strong Romantic worldview with a mentality of follow your dreams no matter what you have to do, with success put above family and ethics, with some unethical practices checked by a moral/ethical worldview, interview subjects in documentary discuss elements of communism and socialism, American veteran is a documentary subject, and several scenes showing the practice of Shamanism; about 23 to 25 obscenities and profanities, man depicted and heard urinating, vomiting depicted on multiple occasions; no violence; married couples shown making out and kissing, married man and woman kiss people who are not their spouse; upper male nudity with women and men shown in bathing suits and woman shown in underwear and T-shirt; light recreational drinking at meals; brief cigarette smoking; and, lying used to conjure up documentary story, fictional events presented as real to documentary funders and audience, man shows no remorse for stealing content of others, and man jealous of colleague’s success.
Talk About It
Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.
Josh and Jamie pursue success in very different ways. When does ambition become dishonesty, and what does integrity look like in creative work?
Proverbs 10:9 · Ephesians 4:25The film places success above family and ethics. What should come first when those priorities conflict?
Matthew 6:33 · Mark 8:36The married couples begin to harm their relationships through kissing others and mistreating each other. What do faithfulness and repentance require when trust is damaged?
Exodus 20:14 · Ephesians 4:31–32The film depicts Shamanism as a way to purge evil. How does that differ from the biblical account of forgiveness and cleansing?
1 John 1:9 · Hebrews 9:14The Final Word
WHILE WE’RE YOUNG offers adults a funny, compelling look at ambition, jealousy, family, and ethics. Its strong false religious elements, language, sexual content, and troubled marriages make it unsuitable for children and young teens. For discerning adults, the answer is WORTH THE TRIP — ADULTS ONLY. For family viewing, choose another film.