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THE EVENING STAR

A heart-wrenching family drama with a pagan, self-centered core.

1996PG-13120 minutesParamount PicturesDramatic Comedy
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ENTERTAINMENT QUALITY ★★★★ 3 / 4 Capable, heart-wrenching dramatic comedy.
FAMILY CONTENT Excessive −3 on the +4 to −4 scale Excessive; not recommended.
CONTENT LEVELS NONE → HEAVY
Language Moderate
Violence None
Sex Heavy
Nudity Moderate
BEST FOR Adults, the stated intended audience.
NOT FOR Children, young teens, or families seeking suitable viewing.
CONTENT IN ONE LINE Pagan self-determination, obscenities and profanities, sexual situations, nudity, alcohol, smoking, drugs, and children born out of wedlock.
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Should You Watch It?

The film has real dramatic strengths. Its cast works well together, the family story is emotionally forceful, and Marion Ross gives the supporting role of Rosie unusual power. The material explores family conflict, grief, forgiveness, and the consequences of foolish choices.

But the content rating is −3, and that settles the family decision. The film includes strong sexual and pagan elements, profanity, nudity, smoking, alcohol, drugs, and children born out of wedlock. Its worldview also treats personal problems as matters of self-analysis and self-determination rather than submission to God.

You may find the family drama moving, but this is one to skip rather than bring into your home or conscience.

The Story

NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISES

Aurora Greenway is an older, relentless grandmother trying to manage the troubled lives of her three grandchildren. One grandson is in prison on a drug possession charge. Another lives with the mother of his child. Her granddaughter leaves Rice University to live with an unfaithful boyfriend.

As Aurora struggles with her grandchildren, her rival Patsy, and the attractive Jerry, she looks back over the choices that shaped her family and her own complicated life.

Is It Any Good?

Three stars means this is a capable film with genuine emotional force, though its story is complicated and jumbled. Robert Harling’s adaptation is described as heart-wrenching, on a par with the original Terms of Endearment.

The cast is a clear strength. The characters work together well, and Marion Ross gives Rosie a surprisingly powerful presence. Shirley MacLaine is supported by a talented ensemble, though Aurora’s self-centered personality dominates the film.

The Worldview

The film presents a pagan worldview in which personal problems are solved through self-analysis and self-determination. Aurora is headstrong, liberated, admired, and often insensitive to the people closest to her. The story observes the consequences of foolish choices, but it does not provide a distinctly biblical framework for repentance or moral renewal.

The movie also contains strong feminist elements. Aurora’s independence and control are celebrated, while the male characters are portrayed as shallow, single-minded, and weak in her presence. The film’s sexual relationships and children born out of wedlock further reflect a view of intimacy detached from biblical marriage.

The film does recognize family loyalty, grief, forgiveness, and the lasting consequences of personal decisions. Scripture, however, warns that self-directed wisdom can lead us away from life: “There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death” (Proverbs 14:12).

Movieguide® worldview codes: Pa, LL, SSS, NN, A, D, M — preserved for our database, awards research and the annual Report to the Entertainment Industry. What the codes mean →

The Content Guide

The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.

Content Summary

Pagan worldview where personal problems are solved by self-analysis & self-determination; 6 obscenities & 4 profanities; several implied sexual situations, including fornication between older woman & younger man & premarital fornication; upper female nudity & male in underwear; alcohol use; smoking; man in prison for possession of drugs & overdose of prescription drugs; and, children born out of wedlock.

Talk About It

Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.

01

The film follows people making foolish choices and living with their consequences. How does Scripture describe the difference between wisdom that seems right and wisdom that comes from God?

Proverbs 14:12 · James 3:13–18
02

The story includes sexual relationships outside marriage. What does God say about honoring marriage and treating sexuality as something sacred?

Hebrews 13:4 · 1 Corinthians 6:18–20
03

Aurora tries to control the lives of her grandchildren, while the family also struggles with forgiveness. What does healthy correction look like, and how should Christians forgive one another?

Ephesians 6:4 · Colossians 3:12–13

The Final Word

This is a well-acted, emotionally powerful family drama, but its −3 content rating and pagan, sexually permissive worldview make the answer plain: SKIP IT. There are better choices for your family and your conscience.

THE VERDICT Skip it.
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