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SECRETS AND LIES

An emotionally healing family drama about truth, commitment and acceptance.

2012PG-13140 mins.October FilmsDrama
Worth the trip — ages 13 and up.
ENTERTAINMENT QUALITY ★★★ 3 / 4 A thoughtful, emotionally affecting morality tale.
FAMILY CONTENT Discernment −1 on the +4 to −4 scale Discernment advised; fine for middle schoolers and up, while parents should decide carefully for younger children.
CONTENT LEVELS NONE → HEAVY
Language Moderate
Violence None
Sex Light
Nudity None
BEST FOR Middle schoolers, teens and adults who can discuss mature themes thoughtfully.
NOT FOR Younger children or viewers avoiding obscenities, implied sexual immorality, alcohol abuse and smoking.
CONTENT IN ONE LINE Two profanities, 10 obscenities, implied sexual immorality, alcohol use and abuse, smoking, and unpleasant bodily-function imagery.
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Should You Watch It?

SECRETS AND LIES is a three-star drama with a clear moral center. It promotes commitment and speaking the truth in love through a family forced to face long-hidden secrets. The result is emotional healing, along with a serious look at identity, family belonging and race.

That moral strength comes with content costs. The film includes two profanities, 10 obscenities, implied sexual immorality, alcohol use and abuse, smoking, and some unpleasant imagery. Those concerns make it a poor choice for younger children, even though the film’s central message is mostly moral.

If your family can handle the content and discuss its themes, this is worth seeing for viewers ages 13 and up.

The Story

NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISES

After the death of her adoptive mother, Hortance, a young Black woman living in London, searches for her birth mother. She finds a white, never-married factory worker named Cynthia, who lives with her daughter, Roxanne.

Cynthia initially refuses to recognize Hortance. Meanwhile, Cynthia’s brother, Morris, invites Cynthia and Roxanne to his home for Roxanne’s 21st birthday. The family gathering brings hidden relationships and difficult truths closer to the surface.

Is It Any Good?

Three stars means SECRETS AND LIES is a worthwhile, emotionally affecting drama, though the source review offers few specific craft observations. Its strength is its focus on family relationships, moral choices and the emotional healing that follows when truth is finally faced.

The film works primarily as a morality tale. It presents commitment and speaking the truth in love as constructive responses to family secrets and lies.

The Worldview

SECRETS AND LIES presents family commitment and truth-telling as moral goods. Its central claim is that families do not escape secrets and lies by continuing to hide them. Instead, speaking the truth in love can lead to emotional healing.

The film also addresses identity and race. Hortance is a young Black woman, while her birth mother is white, and the story asks whether a family can accept someone of a different race. The film’s answer is yes, presenting such acceptance as part of family love and belonging.

The movie aligns with a biblical emphasis on truth spoken with love, but its summary does not indicate a specifically Christian account of family healing. Its moral vision is broadly consistent with Scripture while remaining primarily a human story about honesty, commitment and acceptance.

The film’s central longing is for a family where truth does not destroy love but helps restore it. Scripture calls believers to grow by “speaking the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15).

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The Content Guide

The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.

Content Summary

Biblical worldview promoting commitment & speaking the truth in love; 2 profanities & 10 obscenities; implied immorality involving couple on bed in undergarments & two occasions where condom use is discussed; alcohol use and abuse; smoking; and, woman on toilet applying a tampon and person vomiting into sink

Talk About It

Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.

01

Why do secrets and lies often grow when people refuse to face the truth? What does it mean to speak the truth in love?

Ephesians 4:15 · Proverbs 12:22
02

The film asks whether a family can accept someone of a different race. How should Christians understand the equal worth of people made in God’s image?

Genesis 1:27 · Galatians 3:28
03

What kinds of commitment help hold a family together when relationships become painful or complicated?

1 Corinthians 13:4–7 · Ruth 1:16–17
04

When truth causes emotional pain before it brings healing, how should a person pursue honesty without becoming harsh?

Colossians 4:6 · James 1:19

The Final Word

SECRETS AND LIES offers a thoughtful morality tale about commitment, truth and family acceptance. Its mature content calls for discernment, but its message can prompt meaningful conversation for older viewers. Our answer is WORTH THE TRIP — AGES 13 AND UP.

THE VERDICT Worth the trip — ages 13 and up.
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