MONSTER-IN-LAW
A funny enough family battle for discerning adults only.
Should You Watch It?
MONSTER-IN-LAW is a pleasant enough romantic comedy built around a battle of wits between two very different women. Jane Fonda gives the film weight as Viola, a lonely television personality who fights to keep her son from marrying Charlie, while Wanda Sykes supplies many of the funniest moments. The movie’s moral center is ultimately sound: both women put love and family above selfish desires.
The tradeoff is substantial. The script is predictable, the language count is high because characters frequently say “God!” and “Oh my God!,” and the film includes sexual discussion, cohabitation with fornication implied, occult Tarot imagery, and a pagan Hindu ceremony for calm. A stereotyped homosexual character also features in the story.
If you are an adult who can exercise discernment around those concerns, this is worth the trip for light comedy and a morally positive ending. Families with children or young teens should choose something else.
The Story
NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISESCharlie is a humble dog walker who falls in love with Kevin, a doctor, and suddenly finds herself entering the world of the rich and famous. Kevin’s mother, Viola, is a longtime television personality whose talk show has just been canceled.
When Kevin introduces the women and then proposes to Charlie, Viola feels threatened. She begins an increasingly intense campaign to separate her son from his fiancée, turning the road to the wedding into a battle of wits.
Is It Any Good?
Three stars means a nicely made, decently funny movie with clear strengths and noticeable limitations. Jane Fonda and Wanda Sykes are the comedic center. Fonda gives the film weight that its C-grade script otherwise lacks, while Sykes’ irreverent humor provides welcome relief from the predictable scenes involving Lopez.
The movie is breezy and keeps viewers interested, but it is nothing special. Its comedy comes mostly from the performers rather than from a consistently strong script. Still, the ending gives the film pleasant emotional and moral resolution.
The Worldview
MONSTER-IN-LAW presents a light moral worldview with redemptive forgiveness and a strong conception of the family. Viola and Charlie begin by acting out of selfish desires and using underhanded tricks against each other, but the film ultimately rebukes revenge and moves them toward better understanding.
The movie also includes false religious elements: an occult Tarot card reading and a pagan Hindu ceremony intended to promote calm, though the ceremony has the feeling of a joke. Its sexual permissiveness includes cohabitation with fornication implied. The film also uses a stereotyped homosexual best-friend character who rambles about fashion and discusses a date with a man.
At its best, the film argues that love and family should rise above control, resentment, and selfish ambition. That emphasis aligns with Scripture’s call to forgive: “bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other” (Colossians 3:13). The movie’s reconciliation is limited, but its longing for restored family relationships points in a constructive direction.
The Content Guide
The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.
Content Summary
Light moral worldview with redemptive forgiveness and a strong conception of the family, as well as stereotyped homosexual best friend character, and false religious elements include an occult Tarot card reading and a pagan Hindu ceremony for calm, although the ceremony has the feeling of a joke; 12 obscenities, many of them light, and 19 profanities, most of them along the lines of “Oh my God!”; comedic violence includes interviewer tackling her subject, woman imagines pushing woman’s head into a cake, woman imagines hitting woman in the head with a pan, woman considers poisoning someone, and angry woman throws objects around her dressing room; cohabitation with fornication implied, and some discussion of sex; people in beachwear; woman relies on alcohol to get through difficult times; and, revenge theme rebuked at movie’s conclusion, and mother-in-law schemes to anger daughter-in-law.
Talk About It
Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.
Viola and Charlie use revenge and manipulation before they learn to understand each other. What would it look like to answer selfishness with patience instead?
Romans 12:17–21 · Colossians 3:12–13The film places love and family above selfish desires. Where does your family need to choose love over control or resentment?
1 Corinthians 13:4–7 · Philippians 2:3–4The story includes Tarot imagery and a pagan ceremony. Why does Scripture warn God’s people against seeking spiritual help from false sources?
Deuteronomy 18:10–12 · Isaiah 8:19–20Charlie and Kevin move in together, with fornication implied. What does Scripture teach about honoring God with our bodies and relationships?
1 Corinthians 6:18–20 · Hebrews 13:4The Final Word
MONSTER-IN-LAW is breezy, decently funny, and ultimately positive about forgiveness and family. But its language, sexual permissiveness, and false religious elements make it a choice for discerning adults only. For younger viewers, choose something else.