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LOVE HAPPENS

A touching, well-made drama about grief, loss, and facing reality.

2009PG-13109 minutesUniversal PicturesDrama
Worth the trip — teens and adults.
ENTERTAINMENT QUALITY ★★★★ 4 / 4 Intelligent, witty, and very well made.
FAMILY CONTENT Discernment −1 on the +4 to −4 scale Discernment needed, especially for younger viewers, because of profanity, sexual references, and a Godless worldview.
CONTENT LEVELS NONE → HEAVY
Language Moderate
Violence Light
Sex None
Nudity None
BEST FOR Teenagers and adults who can engage thoughtfully with a story about grief and emotional honesty.
NOT FOR Younger children or families seeking a God-centered treatment of death and loss.
CONTENT IN ONE LINE Profanity, mild obscenities, sexual references, alcohol use, and a worldview that leaves God and the afterlife unmentioned.
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Should You Watch It?

A widowed self-help author teaches people how to face grief while refusing to face his own. That premise gives Love Happens both emotional force and moral clarity. The film treats grieving and facing reality directly as necessary steps, and its subplot about a seminar participant dealing with the loss of his son is especially moving.

The movie is also honest about its limits. God is not central to the story, and the film says nothing about the afterlife even though death is its subject. Profanity, mild obscenities, sexual references, vulgar comments, and alcohol use add further concerns.

If you are a teenager or adult who can watch with discernment, this is a worthwhile, touching drama. For younger children or families wanting explicitly Christian answers about grief, choose something else.

The Story

NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISES

Burke is a widowed self-help author whose bestselling book about grief has made him a successful seminar leader. He returns to Seattle, where he once lived with his wife, and unexpectedly meets Eloise.

As Burke’s memories return and his feelings for Eloise grow, it becomes clear that his public advice about loss is ahead of his private life. Eloise helps him begin the difficult work he has urged others to undertake.

Is It Any Good?

Four stars means this is a very well-made film with intelligence, wit, and strong performances. The story reveals information a little at a time, a method echoed in the direction and choice of camera angles.

Aaron Eckhart gives a fine performance as a troubled man divided between his public and private personas. The subplot involving a seminar participant grieving his son is especially moving. The film’s emotional honesty and careful storytelling make it a touching drama, even though its worldview leaves the story ultimately hollow.

The Worldview

Love Happens presents grief and loss as realities that must be faced rather than avoided. Burke’s central problem is that he teaches principles he has not practiced himself. The film values honesty, emotional growth, and confronting pain directly.

Those are important moral insights, and they align with biblical principles about truthfulness and mourning. The film also includes a brief Christian element when an unidentified man makes the sign of the cross.

But God is not mentioned, and neither is the afterlife. Death is treated as a human experience requiring emotional work, but the story offers no clear answer about what lies beyond death. That omission makes the film’s treatment of grief feel incomplete. Its moral wisdom is present, but its spiritual foundation is missing.

The film’s central longing is for healing after loss. Scripture gives grief a larger hope: “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted” (Matthew 5:4).

Movieguide® worldview codes: BB, C, LL, V, A, M — preserved for our database, awards research and the annual Report to the Entertainment Industry. What the codes mean →

The Content Guide

The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.

Content Summary

Strong moral worldview of dealing with grief and loss though no mention of God, but brief Christian element occurs when an unidentified man makes the sign of the cross; eight light obscenities and 11 profanities; car crash shown in flashback from distance; some minor comments about sex; no nudity; use of alcohol by main character; no smoking or illegal drugs; and, lying.

Talk About It

Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.

01

Burke teaches others to face pain while avoiding his own grief. Why is it difficult to be honest about our wounds, and how can truth begin healing?

Psalm 34:18 · John 8:32
02

The film treats grieving as necessary rather than something to hide. What does Scripture teach us about mourning with others?

Romans 12:15 · 1 Thessalonians 4:13
03

The story discusses death without mentioning God or the afterlife. What hope does Jesus give people who face death and loss?

John 11:25–26 · 1 Thessalonians 4:13–14
04

An unidentified man makes the sign of the cross. What does the cross mean for someone carrying guilt, pain, or grief?

1 Peter 2:24 · Galatians 6:14

The Final Word

Love Happens is intelligent, touching, and very well made. Its honest treatment of grief is worth discussing, but its silence about God and the afterlife leaves the story incomplete. With discernment, teenagers and adults can take the trip. Our answer is WORTH THE TRIP — TEENS AND ADULTS.

THE VERDICT Worth the trip — teens and adults.
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