DEPARTURES
Giving proper respect to the dead becomes a redemptive cinematic triumph.
Should You Watch It?
DEPARTURES takes a morbid subject and handles it with extraordinary tenderness. Its story of a young man finding meaning in funeral work becomes a meditation on dignity, service, grief, love, and reconciliation. The film also contains overtly positive Christian content, especially at a Christian funeral and during the playing of “Ave Maria.”
The cost is a sustained focus on death, along with references to Buddhism and other religious beliefs. One scene involves a dead body that is discovered to be a cross-dressing young man. Those concerns call for discernment, but the film’s central message—that every person deserves respect and love—offers substantial moral and emotional value.
If you are a teenager or adult prepared for the subject matter, DEPARTURES is worth seeing.
The Story
NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISESDaigo Kobayashi is a young married cellist whose philharmonic orchestra folds, leaving him without work. He and his wife, Mika, return to his hometown as he searches for a more ordinary job.
An apparent opportunity at a travel agency turns out to be work at a Japanese funeral home, where Daigo must help prepare and wash the dead. Repulsed at first, he gradually discovers meaning in the care he gives grieving families—while hiding the nature of his work from his wife.
Is It Any Good?
Four stars means DEPARTURES is an exceptional film, and the source review calls it an exquisite, extraordinary, ultimately redemptive masterpiece.
The movie transforms a dark subject into an inspiring cinematic triumph of sublime, profound beauty. Scene after scene is described as profound, provocative, joyful, or heart-wrenching—sometimes all at once. Its emotional power comes through the graceful care shown to the dead and the gratitude of mourners who see their loved ones handled respectfully.
The Worldview
DEPARTURES exalts service, compassion, respect for the dead, and the essential dignity of every person. Its central conviction is that human beings possess a transcendent spark from the Divine, whether they are Christian, Buddhist, Jewish, atheist, or something else, and whether they treated others kindly or unkindly.
The film includes overtly positive Christian references, especially during a Christian funeral and the reverential playing of “Ave Maria.” It also includes references to Buddhism and other pagan superstitions. Its broad view of human dignity reaches toward biblical compassion, but its treatment of ultimate destiny allows for religious pluralism rather than presenting a distinctly Christian understanding of salvation.
The film also includes a homosexual element in a scene involving a corpse discovered to be a cross-dressing young man. This is part of the film’s broader concern with treating every person respectfully, regardless of circumstance.
DEPARTURES connects its call to love and service with Jesus’ command: “But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return” (Luke 6:35).
The Content Guide
The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.
Content Summary
Very strong moral worldview focusing on a life of service to others with strong redemptive content and some overt positive references to Christianity, especially in one funeral and during reverential playing of the song “Ave, Maria,” plus some references to Buddhism and other false pagan superstitions and a homosexual element in one scene where embarrassed protagonist discovers a female corpse is really a cross-dressing young man; no foul language, but man gets sick and throws up; no violence; no sex scenes; brief upper and rear male nudity in Japanese bathhouse scenes; alcohol use; no smoking; and, man slips on rotten food, implied ancestor reverence, scene of gluttony, a couple morbid jokes, funeral director says his people serve people of all faiths, wife becomes ashamed of husband because of his job but they eventually reconcile with a stronger marriage, mention of a dead body smelling, and protagonist is estranged from his father, who deserted the family.
Talk About It
Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.
The film presents service to grieving people as meaningful work. How can ordinary acts of service minister to someone who is hurting?
Galatians 5:13 · Philippians 2:3–4The story emphasizes respect for people of every background. What does Scripture teach about loving those who are difficult to love?
Luke 6:27–35The film includes Christian and Buddhist references. How can we show respect for people while holding firmly to biblical truth?
1 Peter 3:15–16 · Acts 17:22–31The source review connects the film’s message with loving strangers. Who are the strangers or outsiders God may be asking us to welcome?
Deuteronomy 10:19 · Hebrews 13:2The Final Word
DEPARTURES finds sublime beauty in grief, service, and the dignity of every person. Its religious pluralism and death-related material call for discernment, but its emotional power and redemptive moral vision are exceptional. For teenagers and adults prepared for its subject matter, the answer is WORTH THE TRIP — TEENAGERS AND ADULTS.