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A FAMILY AFFAIR

A charming romcom built on premarital sex and a happiness-first creed.

2024PG-13111 minutesNetflixRomantic Comedy
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ENTERTAINMENT QUALITY ★★★★ 3 / 4 Appealing performances, a predictable plot.
FAMILY CONTENT Caution −2 on the +4 to −4 scale Extreme caution; not for children or teens, and troubling even for adults.
CONTENT LEVELS NONE → HEAVY
Language Heavy
Violence None
Sex Light
Nudity Light
BEST FOR No one, really — the craft is real, but the content undercuts the reasons to watch.
NOT FOR Families, teens, or anyone wary of heavy profanity and casual premarital sex.
CONTENT IN ONE LINE Heavy foul language including three "f" words, two implied fornication scenes, drunkenness leading to sex, and a worldview that makes personal happiness the highest good.
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Should You Watch It?

Here is the honest tension. A FAMILY AFFAIR is well-made — Zac Efron, Nicole Kidman, and Joey King all turn in appealing performances, and the film lands a genuinely warm message about family, rebukes self-centeredness, and gives its mother and daughter a redemptive road back to each other. Fans of lighthearted romance will find it fun.

But the same film runs on a creed Scripture doesn't share: that personal happiness is what matters most, and you should simply do what makes you happy. Around that center sit two implied fornication scenes, twice fueled by drunkenness, and a stream of foul language — nearly thirty obscenities, three "f" words, and eleven misuses of God's name.

So the pleasant surface and the good performances can't outweigh what the story celebrates and shows. Our answer is to skip this one.

The Story

NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISES

Zara is a young Hollywood assistant to Chris Cole, an uber-famous action star who takes her — and nearly everyone else — for granted. Tired of a job that's going nowhere, she quits to chase her own dream of becoming a producer.

Then her world tilts. Chris meets Zara's mother, Brooke, and the two begin seeing each other — a romance that horrifies Zara, who knows all about Chris's playboy past. Caught between the boss who overlooked her and the mother she loves, Zara has to decide what she really believes about the man at the center of it all.

Is It Any Good?

Three stars, and they're earned by the people on screen. Efron, Kidman, and King all deliver quality performances, and together they make a familiar formula pleasant to sit through. For fans of the genre, that's the draw.

The writing is the weak spot. The plot is predictable, clichéd, and unrealistic — a romantic comedy that doesn't innovate within its genre and telegraphs most of its turns. What redeems the storytelling is emotional rather than structural: the mother-daughter reconciliation gives the film real moral depth, and Zara's eventual repentance for her selfishness adds a note the plotting alone couldn't provide. It's an enjoyable watch for the right audience — just not a surprising or ambitious one.

The Worldview

At its core, A FAMILY AFFAIR preaches a Romantic gospel: characters justify their choices because those choices make them happy, and the film advises them to keep doing what feels good. That's a creed Scripture directly challenges — the heart that makes its own happiness the highest good has quietly replaced God at the center.

Yet the film isn't all of one piece. It carries real moral and redemptive threads too. It takes marriage seriously as a good thing, references Heaven positively, and prizes love. Its most honest movement is Zara's: selfish throughout, she's finally confronted by her best friend, repents, and apologizes. The reconciliation between mother and daughter is genuinely affecting, and the film's rebuke of self-centeredness is worth naming.

The film also includes a positive reference to an LGBT relationship, presenting it approvingly. Weigh that as you consider whether and with whom to watch.

Where the story goes badly wrong is in what it shows and shrugs at: sex outside marriage, twice reached through drunkenness, treated as ordinary. The film wants us to root for love while blurring the covenant that makes love safe. The longing underneath it — for a home, a family made whole — is real and good. But the happiness it chases can't be self-made. "For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also" (Matthew 6:21).

Movieguide® worldview codes: RoRo, B, C, Ho, LLL, S, N, AA, M — preserved for our database, awards research and the annual Report to the Entertainment Industry. What the codes mean →

The Content Guide

The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.

Dominant Worldview and Other Worldview Content/Elements

Strong Romantic worldview where characters justify their actions because they make them happy and are advised to do what makes them happy, mitigated by some moral, redemptive content including a mother reconciling with her daughter, a positive view of marriage, a positive reference to Heaven, references to love, and, although the daughter is selfish throughout the whole movie, she’s eventually chastised for her self-centeredness by her best friend, which causes her to repent and apologize, plus there’s a positive reference to LGBT relationships

Foul Language

28 obscenities (including three “f” words, and many “b” words), 11 instances of profanities using the word God, 3 light profanities, and some obscene jesters of the main character flipping people off

Violence

Multiple instances of verbal arguments, but no physical orb actual violence

Sex

Two implied fornication scenes (one with upper male nudity and a bare female back) plus one positive reference to LGBT relationships.

Nudity

Four instances of upper male nudity, one scene of a woman’s bare back, and a brief shot of a woman in underwear and a bra

Smoking and/or Drug Use and Abuse

Some social drinking and two instances of drunkenness leading to sex

Smoking and/or Drug Use and Abuse

No smoking or drug use;

Miscellaneous Immorality

Self-centered and conceited characters rarely consider how their actions impact others, but eventually rebuked, and characters sometimes wonder if they can say something because of the political correctness and cancel culture around them.

Talk About It

Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.

01

The film's characters keep telling one another to "do what makes you happy." Where does that advice hold up, and where does it fail — and what does Jesus say about finding our lives by losing them?

Matthew 16:24–26 · John 15:10–11
02

Zara is selfish for most of the story until a friend confronts her, and she repents and apologizes. Why does it often take a true friend to tell us hard things, and how do we welcome that kind of honesty?

Proverbs 27:6 · Galatians 6:1
03

The movie treats sex as a natural next step in romance, apart from marriage. How does Scripture connect physical intimacy to covenant, and why does that connection protect us?

1 Corinthians 6:18–20 · Hebrews 13:4
04

Even in a flawed story, the reconciliation between a mother and daughter shines. What does real reconciliation cost, and how has God modeled it toward us?

2 Corinthians 5:18–19 · Ephesians 4:32

The Final Word

There's genuine charm here — good actors, a warm word about family, a daughter who finally repents. But the story runs on a happiness-first creed, casual premarital sex, and a torrent of profanity that a family shouldn't have to filter. So our answer stands: skip it. Looking for something to enjoy together instead? Try our latest family-friendly picks.

THE VERDICT Skip it.
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