RIDING IN CARS WITH BOYS
An excellent, moving family drama where parental love overcomes selfishness.
Should You Watch It?
Riding in Cars with Boys is a moving family drama built around a clear moral premise: parental love overcomes selfishness. Drew Barrymore gives an excellent performance as Beverly, a frustrated writer whose early pregnancy, marriage, and family responsibilities change the course of her life. The film finds real emotional power in the misunderstandings and reconciliations between Beverly, her son, her father, and her husband.
The movie also treats Beverly’s career goals sympathetically, sometimes more romantically than biblically. PG-13 obscenities and profanities, mild sexual implications, and two brief drug subplots dilute its moral and redemptive elements.
Teenagers and adults can find much to appreciate here, especially in the performances and family-centered resolution. Parents should use discernment with younger viewers. For a thoughtful, well-acted family drama, this is worth the trip for teens and adults.
The Story
NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISESBeverly is a frustrated young writer whose life changes when she becomes pregnant and married at 15—in that order. Her responsibilities prevent her from going to college and pursuing her writing ambitions while she cares for her unreliable husband and precocious son, Jason.
Years later, Beverly is ready to take her book to a publisher. But Jason believes his mother may be holding him back from pursuing his own desires. Their family must face old wounds, difficult choices, and the love that connects them.
Is It Any Good?
Four stars means this is an excellent film, led by a standout performance from Drew Barrymore. She convincingly plays Beverly from age 15 to age 34 or 35, moving through a wide variety of emotions and handling physical comedy as well as dramatic scenes.
The supporting cast is strong, especially Steve Zahn as Beverly’s husband, Brittany Murphy as her best friend, and James Woods as her father. Adam Garcia and Lorraine Bracco also provide solid support. Director Penny Marshall gives the comedy a lively, physical flair, while the family drama develops into a satisfying emotional resolution.
The Worldview
The film’s central moral idea is that parental love overcomes selfishness. It values family relationships, reconciliation, and the sacrifices parents make for their children. Beverly’s love for Jason and the continuing importance of her relationship with her father help drive the story toward resolution.
At the same time, the movie presents Beverly’s plight through a romantic, feminist worldview. It generates sympathy for her frustration when family responsibilities interfere with her goals of attending college and becoming a writer. The film recognizes her parental duties, but it does not center her life on God or Jesus Christ. Her ambitions remain focused on personal fulfillment rather than service to the Lord.
The movie contains Christian and redemptive elements, but its understanding of motherhood and career is more moral and personal than explicitly biblical. Scripture offers a higher ordering of priorities: “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness” (Matthew 6:33). The film’s family love is meaningful, but it would be stronger if that love were understood as service to God.
The Content Guide
The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.
Content Summary
Romantic worldview with feminist, Christian & redemptive elements; 9 obscenities (including one muffled “F” word), 1 strong profanity, 4 mild profanities, & obscene gesture from little boy; some minor violence, mostly comical; implied fornication & girl going through first stages of puberty asks father for a bra; no nudity; alcohol use; smoking, trying to sell marijuana, implied heroin & cocaine use, & man goes through heroin withdrawal; and, selfishness & pregnant 15-year-old girl slides down stairs in order to induce miscarriage.
Talk About It
Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.
The film says parental love can overcome selfishness. Where have you seen love require patience, sacrifice, or forgiveness?
1 Corinthians 13:4–7 · Philippians 2:3–4Beverly struggles to balance her responsibilities as a mother with her desire to become a writer. How should Christians think about work, ambition, and service to family?
Matthew 6:33 · Colossians 3:23–24The story includes family misunderstandings and reconciliations. What makes reconciliation possible after people have hurt one another?
Ephesians 4:31–32 · Colossians 3:13The Final Word
Riding in Cars with Boys is an excellent, compassionate drama about parental love, family misunderstandings, and reconciliation. Its romantic, feminist outlook and PG-13 content call for discernment, but teenagers and adults can find substantial value here. Our answer is clear: WORTH THE TRIP — TEENS AND ADULTS.