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THE ONLY LIVING BOY IN NEW YORK

Truth brings wisdom in an absorbing, adult drama.

2017R88 minutesAmazon Studios/Roadside AttractionsDrama
Worth the trip — adults only.
ENTERTAINMENT QUALITY ★★★★ 4 / 4 Compelling, sleek, and absorbing.
FAMILY CONTENT Caution −2 on the +4 to −4 scale For discerning adults; not for children or young teens.
CONTENT LEVELS NONE → HEAVY
Language Moderate
Violence Light
Sex Light
Nudity Moderate
BEST FOR Older teenagers and adults who can handle illicit affairs and strong language.
NOT FOR Children, young teens, or viewers avoiding sexual immorality and crude dialogue.
CONTENT IN ONE LINE Illicit love affairs, other bad decisions, strong foul language, crude dialogue, and a mixed worldview.
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Should You Watch It?

This is a compelling, tightly made drama about a young man whose attempt to protect his fragile mother pulls him into his father’s affair. The direction, dialogue, and performances work together well, and the film moves briskly through its 88-minute running time.

The story takes honesty seriously by showing how hidden truths damage people and how confession can lead toward wisdom and family reconciliation. But it also involves illicit love affairs, sexual wrongdoing, crude dialogue, and strong foul language. The film’s uplifting ending does not erase the choices that lead there.

If you are an adult—or an older teenager with sound parental guidance—who can engage those concerns thoughtfully, this is WORTH THE TRIP — ADULTS ONLY.

The Story

NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISES

Thomas Webb has just left college and is still pining for Mimi, a friend who wants only a platonic relationship. After moving from his parents’ affluent Upper West Side world to Manhattan’s Lower East Side, Thomas befriends W.F. Gerald, an alcoholic writer who offers advice about love and life.

Then Thomas sees his father with a much younger woman. Protective of his mother, he begins following her, setting in motion a series of messy discoveries that will challenge everything he thinks he knows about his family and his new friend.

Is It Any Good?

Four stars means this is an engaging, absorbing film with craft to match its story. The direction and dialogue are compelling, the performances are strong, and the film is sleekly paced at 88 minutes.

The relative newcomers in the roles of Thomas and Mimi hold their own against a talented veteran cast led by Jeff Bridges. The film’s plot twists build toward an uplifting ending, with touching moments of family reconciliation. Its serious moral concerns do not diminish the review’s positive judgment of the filmmaking.

The Worldview

The film presents a mixed worldview. It includes strong romantic and anti-law elements, but it also contains moral elements that lead its characters toward honesty and family reconciliation. It suggests that some modern redevelopment in New York City neighborhoods has caused the city to “lose its soul,” and it includes a brief reference to homosexuality.

At the center is the idea that hidden truth eventually has to be faced. People make damaging choices, conceal what they have done, and later move toward confession. The film’s moral vision is incomplete because it places illicit relationships and other bad decisions within an ultimately uplifting story, but it does recognize that truth can make people wiser and help repair a family.

Scripture likewise calls us away from falsehood and toward honest speech: “Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor” (Ephesians 4:25).

Movieguide® worldview codes: PaPa, RoRo, FR, B, ACap, Ho, LL, V, S, NN, A, DD, MM — preserved for our database, awards research and the annual Report to the Entertainment Industry. What the codes mean →

The Content Guide

The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.

Content Summary

Strong mixed worldview with strong Romantic, antinomian elements combined with some moral elements leading to honesty and family reconciliation, plus a minor anti-capitalist theme suggesting that some modern redevelopment in some New York City neighborhoods has caused the city to “lose its soul,” and a brief homosexual reference; 21 obscenities (mostly “f” words), two strong profanities and two light profanities; father violently grabs his son after he learns an awful secret, but he stops after realizing what he’s about to do; scene of implied fornication, crude sexual references, married man kisses his mistress in a restaurant and plans on leaving his wife of many years, passionate kissing in another scene, and confession of a past one night stand; brief image of upper female nudity and three images of upper male nudity in three scenes; alcohol use; smoking and brief marijuana use; and, college graduate stalks his father’s mistress and confronts her, cheating, lying, people hide truth but later make confessions, divorce.

Talk About It

Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.

01

Thomas tries to protect his mother, but his choices become entangled with the wrongdoing he discovers. When does confronting sin require wisdom, truth, and self-control?

Ephesians 4:25 · James 1:19–20
02

The film connects confession with wisdom and family reconciliation. What makes an apology genuine, and what does real repentance require?

2 Corinthians 7:10 · Luke 3:8
03

How can a family pursue reconciliation without pretending that betrayal and other harmful choices do not matter?

Colossians 3:12–13 · Proverbs 28:13
04

The film suggests that a city can lose its soul through modern redevelopment. What does Scripture say gives a community lasting value?

Micah 6:8 · Matthew 6:19–21

The Final Word

This is a sleek, absorbing drama with compelling performances and an uplifting movement toward truth and family reconciliation. Its illicit affairs, strong language, and mixed moral vision make it unsuitable for children and young teens. For discerning adults who can engage those concerns, it is WORTH THE TRIP — ADULTS ONLY. For other family viewing, see.

THE VERDICT Worth the trip — adults only.
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