13 GOING ON 30
A warm second chance about choosing character over success.
Should You Watch It?
You get a familiar but appealing second-chance story. Jenna Rink discovers that money, romance, and professional success have not made her a better person. The film’s strongest idea is that correcting selfish and immoral choices matters more than keeping a dream job or gaining worldly success.
The movie has a few laughs, some goofy slapstick humor, and a warm, believable love story. But its lesson is surrounded by adult behavior, including sleeping around, adultery, partying, drinking, and a live-in boyfriend. Those elements may be too much for younger children, even though the story ultimately rebukes them.
For teenagers and adults, especially middle schoolers and up whose families can discuss the content, this is worth seeing.
The Story
NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISESUnpopular and unhappy 13-year-old Jenna Rink wishes she were 30. Her wish comes true, and she wakes up in a luxurious New York apartment as a wealthy magazine editor with a famous boyfriend.
When Jenna finds her best friend from middle school, she begins learning what her adult life has become. That discovery leads her to reconsider the choices she made and the kind of person she wants to be.
Is It Any Good?
Three stars means this is a good, enjoyable film with clear limitations. The movie offers a few laughs, including goofy and slapstick humor, and its love story is warm and believable, though not a classic.
Its greatest strength is the moral movement at the center of the story. Jenna’s realization that she has become shallow and self-interested gives the comedy emotional purpose. The familiar plot keeps the film from feeling especially fresh, but the warm story and positive lesson give it lasting value.
The Worldview
The film presents a dominant moral worldview with a redemptive premise. It argues that people should correct their mistakes and choose love for others over selfish goals. Jenna’s adult life treats money and success as permission to behave badly, but the story ultimately rebukes that way of living.
The movie’s moral vision is complicated by its magical plot device and by some pagan morality that allows partying and sleeping around. Still, those behaviors are mostly rejected rather than celebrated. Jenna recognizes that her choices have made her a worse person and chooses what is good and true, even when that costs her success.
The central longing is for a second chance to become the right kind of person. Scripture likewise calls people to leave selfishness behind and walk in love: “walk in love, as Christ loved us” (Ephesians 5:2).
The Content Guide
The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.
Content Summary
Dominant moral worldview with redemptive premise encourages correcting mistakes and love for others over selfish goals, with a magical plot device as well as presentation of some pagan morality that allows partying and sleeping around but which is mostly rebuked; six obscenities and seven profanities; some slapstick comedy violence; moderate sexual innuendo and fornication implied, plus adultery rebuked; man walks through apartment in towel and woman in nightgown; characters drink alcohol at party and at restaurants, and middle schooler requests beer; character is asked if she is “on drugs”; and, schoolgirls bully another girl, woman betrays friends and steals their ideas at work, and extensive product placement. GENRE: Comedy
Talk About It
Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.
Jenna learns that money and success cannot make selfish choices right. What matters more than achievement in the way you treat other people?
Mark 8:36 · Philippians 2:3–4Jenna wants to repair the harm caused by her adult choices. What does it look like to admit a wrong and make it right?
Luke 19:8 · 1 John 1:9The film contrasts love for others with a life built around personal success. Where do you see opportunities to put another person’s good before your own?
1 Corinthians 13:4–7 · Philippians 2:4Jenna receives another chance to make different choices. How is a changed life more than simply wishing for a different past?
Ephesians 4:22–24 · 2 Corinthians 5:17The Final Word
This warm comedy has a positive moral center: love and truth matter more than selfish success. Its adult elements call for discernment, especially with younger viewers. For teenagers and adults, WORTH THE TRIP — AGES 13 AND UP. For younger children, consider other.