MERRILY WE ROLL ALONG
Sondheim's bittersweet gem — glorious for grown-ups, not for the kids.
Should You Watch It?
This is as good as filmed musical theater gets. Stephen Sondheim's score is gorgeous, the story is genuinely bittersweet, and Jonathan Groff, Daniel Radcliffe, and Lindsay Mendez all deliver excellent performances in a production that earned four Tony Awards. The film's message is one Scripture would affirm without hesitation: fame and fortune are empty without the love of family and friends.
But this is not family fare. The story runs on marital infidelity — a man's affair unravels both his marriage and his closest friendships — and the language is rough, with over 20 obscenities including six strong profanities. Two scenes show characters using cocaine and marijuana, and drinking runs through the party scenes, including one bout of drunkenness.
If you're an adult who loves musical theater and can watch a story about broken loyalty without it becoming your own temptation, this one rewards you richly. If you're picking a movie for your kids, keep looking. Bottom line: worth seeing, but strictly for grown-ups.
The Story
NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISESThe film opens at the end — a 1977 party celebrating Frank, now a major Hollywood player. His old friend Mary calls him out for how success has changed him, and for the broken friendship and marriages he's left behind. From there, the story rolls backward through the decades, tracing how three friends — Frank, Charley, and Mary — got from a hopeful beginning to this fractured place.
Is It Any Good?
Four stars, and they're earned. This filmed production captures a genuinely acclaimed Broadway revival — the songs are beautiful, the reverse-chronology structure gives the story real emotional weight, and the three leads perform with skill and feeling. What started as a 1981 flop has grown into one of Sondheim's most celebrated works, and this production shows why: it's polished, moving, and well-crafted from top to bottom. There's little to fault here on craft alone — this is simply strong musical filmmaking.
The Worldview
At its heart, this is a moral story, and a clear-eyed one. The film traces exactly what happens when a man chases fame and fortune at the expense of the people who loved him first — his marriages collapse, his oldest friendship breaks, and by the story's end (which the film shows us first), he's surrounded by success and starved of the relationships that actually sustained him. That's not a subtle message, and it's not a false one. Scripture says the same thing more plainly: "What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?" (Mark 8:36).
The film doesn't sanitize how that happens. Frank's infidelity is central to the plot — an affair that breaks his marriage and, eventually, his friendships — and the story doesn't flinch from showing dysfunction along the way. But the story never presents that infidelity as harmless or the fame as worth its cost; the whole shape of the narrative is an argument against it, told in reverse so the audience feels the loss before they understand the choices that caused it.
The longing underneath all of this — for friendship that lasts, for a life that means something beyond applause — is one the gospel answers directly. Frank spends decades discovering that success without love is empty. Scripture puts the choice before us from the start: "For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul?" (Matthew 16:26).
The Content Guide
The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.
Dominant Worldview and Other Worldview Content/Elements
Moral worldview about three friends shows that fame and fortune are empty without the love of family and friends (story includes marital infidelity and dysfunctional family relationships)
Foul Language
23 obscenities (including one “f” word), six GD profanities, five OMG profanities, and one scene where a character makes an obscene gesture
Violence
One character gets in a brief fight with a photographer
Sex
One character has an affair while married, but nothing is shown
Nudity
None
Alcohol Use
Characters are shown drinking at parties throughout the musical, with one alcoholic character drinking to excess in one scene
Smoking and/or Drug Use and Abuse
Two scenes depict characters using cocaine and smoking marijuana;
Miscellaneous Immorality
Character lies about his affair with a married woman, while he is also married.
Talk About It
Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.
Frank ends up with fame and fortune but loses his marriages and his oldest friendship. What does Jesus mean when He asks what it profits a man to gain the world but lose his soul?
Mark 8:36 · Matthew 16:26The story is told backward, so we see the broken ending before we see the choices that caused it. Does knowing where a path leads change how you think about the small choices along the way?
Proverbs 14:12Charley and Frank's friendship falls apart under the weight of Frank's ambition. What does Scripture say about the kind of friend who "sticks closer than a brother," and what does it cost to be that kind of friend?
Proverbs 18:24Frank's affair sets almost every loss in the story in motion. How does the film treat that choice — as harmless, or as costly? How does that compare with how Scripture treats faithfulness in marriage?
Malachi 2:14–16 · Hebrews 13:4The Final Word
This is a beautifully made musical with a genuinely moral heart — and it earns its caution rating honestly, with real infidelity, real drug use, and real profanity on screen. Adults who can watch that honestly and still hear the film's warning about fame's emptiness will find it well worth their time. Our answer, the same one we opened with: worth the trip — adults only. Choosing something for the whole family instead? Start with our latest family-friendly picks.